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For Tuesday, May 28, 2019:


[The] kind of deep attention that we pay as children is something that I cherish, that I think we all can cherish and reclaim — because attention is the doorway to gratitude, the doorway to wonder, the doorway to reciprocity. And it worries me greatly that today’s children can recognize 100 corporate logos and fewer than 10 plants. That means they’re not paying attention.

Robin Wall Kimmerer, ‘The Intelligence in All Kinds of Life,’ an On Being conversation with Krista Tippett (h/t BrainPickings)


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For Friday, December 7, 2018:


It has frequently been remarked, about my own writings, that I emphasize the notion of attention. This began simply enough: to see that the way the flicker flies is greatly different from the way the swallow plays in the golden air of summer. It was my pleasure to notice such things, it was a good first step. But later, watching M. [Molly Malone Cook] when she was taking photographs, and watching her in the darkroom, and no less watching the intensity and openness with which she dealt with friends, and strangers too, taught me what real attention is about. Attention without feeling, I began to learn, is only a report. An openness — an empathy — was necessary if the attention was to matter … Then M. instilled in me this deeper level of looking and working, of seeing through the heavenly visibles to the heavenly invisibles …

Mary Oliver, OUR WORLD

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For Tuesday, September 25, 2018:


A fertile solitude is a benign forgetting of the body that takes care of itself … A productive solitude, the solitude in which what could never have been anticipated appears, is linked with a quality of attention.


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For Tuesday, May 30, 2017:


Part of what restricts us seeing things is that we have an expectation about what we will see, and we are actually perceptually restricted by that expectation.  In a sense, expectation is the lost cousin of attention: both serve to reduce what we need to process of the world ‘out there.’  Attention is the more charismatic member, packaged and sold more effectively, but expectation is also a crucial part of what we see.  Together they allow us to be functional, reducing the sensory chaos of the world into unbothersome and understandable units.


(This is from a fascinating article by Maria Popova at Brain Pickings.  Horowitz set herself the task of walking around the New York City block in which she and her family, including dogs, live, accompanied by eleven different pairs of eyes: those of such experts as an entomologist, a blind neighbor, someone from the Humane Society, an audiologist, her young son, even her dogs, and more.  The whole exercise is framed by her observations of her solitary walks before and after the experiment.

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For Thursday, January 21, 2016:


“The writer should never be ashamed of staring.  There is nothing that does not require [our] attention.”

Flannery O’Connor

There are ways to stare without being too obvious about it.

Today holds another opportunity to sit in another doctor’s office waiting room.  Over the years, I’ve made it a habit, if I know I might be waiting for a while, to have a notebook with me and to write down what is going on around me.  The babies crying or cooing, the adults who sit perfectly still with apparent worry, the young people who focus on their cell phones, the people who bring a book with them, those who make eye contact and those who don’t.

I do this in hospitals, airports, and train stations, too, but the smaller space of a doctor’s office makes it harder to observe humanity without being rude.  If I can, I find a seat in a far corner of the room, pull out my notebook and pen as soon as I sit down, and write a few lines without looking at anyone.  I write about what I can hear and smell, what I saw before I sat down.

Then I stop and look off into space for a moment or two, or look out a window if there is one.  This is when I can collect a few more details.  My eyes may look unfocused, but they’re really not: I can get a better feel for people’s body language, who’s talking to whom (or not), how people are dressed, who else is looking out the window or staring at the floor.  After I look down and write a few more sentences, I stop, shift in my chair and look around again, and gather up more specifics.

There are a lot of potential stories in waiting rooms, and certainly character sketches.  I’ve seen obvious heartache, weariness, stress.  I’ve seen excitement, joy, careful hope.  I’ve seen boredom, strength, persistence, praying.  I’ve seen artists drawing – are they doing what I am? – and, once in a while, others who appear to be writers – they are doing what I am, notebook and pen in hand, and we make easy eye contact with each other and smile.

A writer’s stare is the tape recorder of our brain.  We may not always have a notebook with us, but most of us always have our eyes and our memory, our senses of smell, touch, and taste.  So what opportunities do you have to pay attention today?  If you get caught staring, just tell ’em that Flannery O’Connor gives you permission!